ChillMe Community Guidelines

Good vibes need good boundaries.

ChillMe is built for real connection: new friends, shared experiences, safe spaces and memorable nights. These guidelines explain how we keep the community welcoming, respectful and comfortable for everyone.

01Respect people.
02Ask. Don’t assume.
03Come as you are.
04Leave people feeling safe.
The simple version

Be the person you’d want to meet at your first ChillMe event.

Friendly. Respectful. Curious. Clear about boundaries. Ready to include someone who came alone.

Our community promise

Everyone deserves respect.

Nationality, gender, race, religion, language, disability, appearance, age, identity or background are never an excuse for disrespect.

Consent matters.

Physical contact, photos, personal questions and romantic interest must respect the other person’s comfort and boundaries.

No one owes you attention.

People may decline a conversation, invitation, photo, drink, contact exchange or follow-up. Accept it gracefully.

Hosts can step in.

ChillMe hosts and venue staff may intervene when behaviour threatens safety, comfort or the experience of the group.

Community rules

The rules that protect the vibe.

These apply at ChillMe events, partner venues, group chats, direct messages that originate from the community, and other ChillMe-managed spaces.

1

Respect boundaries

If someone says no, steps away, changes the subject, stops responding or looks uncomfortable, give them space. Repeated unwanted attention is not welcome.

2

No harassment

Harassment, intimidation, stalking, sexual pressure, unwanted touching, threats, bullying or deliberately humiliating another person can lead to immediate removal.

3

No discrimination

Hate speech, slurs or exclusion based on protected or personal characteristics do not belong in ChillMe spaces.

4

Don’t turn it into a sales floor

Networking can happen naturally, but aggressive selling, unsolicited recruiting, MLM promotion, spam or repeatedly pitching attendees is not acceptable.

5

Respect privacy

Do not share another member’s phone number, photos, private messages, workplace, home address or personal story without permission.

6

Follow venue & UAE rules

Members must follow venue policies, event-specific instructions and applicable UAE laws. Venue staff decisions concerning safety and access must be respected.

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ChillMe is a friendship and community space—not a dating service.

Relationships may naturally happen between adults, but attending an event never implies romantic interest. Treat every interaction as social unless both people clearly express otherwise.

Consent & comfort

Ask first. Make “no” easy.

Good ChillMe behaviour

  • Ask before hugging or initiating physical contact.
  • Ask before taking close-up or identifiable photos.
  • Accept “no thanks” without asking for an explanation.
  • Give people room to move between conversations.
  • Invite quieter or solo attendees in without putting them on the spot.
  • Respect differences in culture, communication style and personal space.

Behaviour that crosses the line

  • Repeatedly asking for a phone number after someone declines.
  • Sexual comments or jokes directed at someone who has not welcomed them.
  • Touching someone without clear permission.
  • Following someone after they try to leave an interaction.
  • Pressuring someone to drink, stay longer or go somewhere else.
  • Using community contact information to send persistent unwanted messages.
Photos & content

Memories are great. Consent still comes first.

Event photography

Some ChillMe events may include photography or video for community and promotional content. When possible, we communicate this before or during the event.

If you do not want to be prominently photographed, tell the host or photographer. We will make reasonable efforts to respect that request.

Member-created content

Before posting a close-up image, private conversation or identifiable story about another attendee, ask them. Group atmosphere shots are different from using someone as the subject of your content.

Never use another attendee’s image in advertising or commercial promotion without their permission.

Hosts, creators & venues

If you host the room, you help protect the room.

A

Set expectations

Explain important activity rules, accessibility considerations, age restrictions and venue requirements clearly.

B

Watch the room

Do not ignore obvious discomfort, harassment, unsafe behaviour or escalating conflict because “people are adults.”

C

Protect newcomers

Help solo attendees join naturally and avoid creating cliques that make newcomers feel unwelcome.

D

Handle data responsibly

Registration details and member contact information must only be used for the event or purpose they were collected for.

E

Be clear about money

Hosts and partners should clearly explain inclusions, exclusions, additional venue spending and material fees before purchase where applicable.

F

Escalate serious issues

Safety concerns, threats, harassment or repeated guideline violations should be reported to ChillMe rather than handled informally forever.

Reporting a concern

Something felt wrong? Tell us.

You do not need to confront someone yourself before asking ChillMe for help. Share what happened, where it happened and any useful details you are comfortable providing.

1
Move to safety first.

If you feel unsafe at an event, move toward the host, venue staff or a trusted person.

2
Tell a host when possible.

For issues happening live, early intervention often prevents escalation.

3
Send the details.

Include the event, approximate time, people involved and screenshots or supporting information where relevant.

4
We review the situation.

We may speak to relevant people, hosts or venue staff and decide on proportionate action.

Moderation

What happens when guidelines are broken?

ChillMe may take action based on the seriousness of the behaviour, context, previous reports and risk to the community. Not every case follows the same sequence.

Reminder

A host may clarify a rule or ask behaviour to stop.

Warning

A formal warning may be issued for behaviour that needs clear correction.

Removal

A participant may be asked to leave an event or online community space.

Restriction or ban

Serious or repeated violations may result in suspension or removal from future ChillMe activities.

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Serious safety issues may skip straight to removal or restriction.

ChillMe reserves the ability to act quickly where there is a credible concern involving violence, threats, stalking, sexual harassment, discrimination, fraud or other serious misconduct.

Online community spaces

The same respect applies after the event.

WhatsApp, groups & DMs

  • Do not scrape numbers or mass-message members.
  • Do not add members to unrelated groups without permission.
  • Do not flood groups with promotions, forwards or repetitive content.
  • Do not use private information shared in a group to target someone elsewhere.
  • Respect moderator instructions and group-specific posting rules.

Keep disagreements human

You can disagree with someone. You cannot attack, threaten, shame, expose or mobilize others against them.

If a conversation becomes heated, stop and move on. ChillMe groups are not a courtroom, political battleground or place to settle personal disputes publicly.

FAQ

Community Guidelines FAQs

Can I attend ChillMe events alone?

Yes. ChillMe is designed to make solo attendance comfortable. Hosts may use introductions, group activities and conversation prompts to help people connect naturally.

Is ChillMe a dating community?

No. ChillMe is primarily a friendship and social community. Adults may naturally form relationships, but participation never implies romantic availability or consent.

What should I do if someone makes me uncomfortable?

Move away from the situation and tell the host or venue staff if the issue is happening live. You can also contact ChillMe after the event through the contact page.

Can ChillMe remove someone from an event?

Yes. ChillMe hosts or relevant venue staff may ask someone to leave when their behaviour threatens safety, repeatedly breaks event rules or significantly disrupts other attendees.

Can I promote my company at ChillMe events?

Natural professional conversations are fine, but unsolicited pitching, repetitive selling, spam or recruiting attendees without permission can disrupt the community experience. Formal brand or venue collaborations should use the Partners route.

Are photos allowed at ChillMe events?

Photography may be part of some events. Members should still respect requests not to be individually photographed and should ask permission before posting close-up or sensitive content involving another attendee.

These Community Guidelines support the ChillMe experience and should be read alongside any applicable event terms, privacy policy, venue rules and platform terms. They are not a substitute for emergency services or legal advice.

Help us make the next person feel welcome.

Good communities are not built by rules alone. They are built by thousands of small choices to include, listen, respect and look out for each other.

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